Tuesday, May 26
Mandarin 101, here we come...
For Kay's 1st 2 years, we've been practically speaking at home (be it at great grandma's place, or at my in-laws with the occasionally mandarin speaking folks), it's almost everything in english(even grandmas are speaking english to him).
From June onwards, i've signed Kay up for fun learning at Growing up Gifted http://www.gugifted.com/main.htm, and i love the fact that it's only once a week on weekends, with each session being only 1 1/2 hours, and most importantly it's filled with fun, fun and more fun learning stuff like creative art, musical & rhythm(he loves musical instruments), cooking & play, story telling, songs, and most importantly it's done in english & mandarin. To me it's so important that Kay learns through play & enjoy himself with such interactive sessions (hand painting, puppets, the use of aromatic spices to watching the scientific changes which takes place during popcorn making), and he would have a chance to interact with kids between 18 months to 3 years of age, and the fact that he will have his 1st brush with mandarin (gosh he would be the only one giggling away again which i can just imagine for his 1st session). It's also exciting that i get to spend this sessions doing things with him.
Kaylen's everydays are usually filled with play, running around, watching grams do chores, evening walks at the nearby park, and occassional TV watching of his fave - Word World at this moment (he is able to know says both these words when it comes to watching this show), and he learns through his words from this program, and we come to realise that Kay does not like much sitting down, or reading through his storybooks as he would do in the past, and we certainly have a tough time sometimes during story time cause he would be wanting to be flipping pages after pages as we read. I'm not insisting, and would just let him be. There are just times when he wants to be doing his own stuff in his own time, and doesn't feel like doing anything else except that, i would just leave him be. It's going to be worst if i insist that he does this or that, and so till he is able to allow me to reason out why we need to be doing certain things, i'm just happy watching him enjoy his daily playtime.
Have a beautiful Tuesday , and thanks you all so much for leaving Kaylen with such wonderful birthday wishes. HUGS!!!
Monday, May 25
He is two
2 years ago, he came into my life, just a lil one, but look at him now, i'm just contented to seeing him grow up being this individual who has a strong determination to get things done, shy at times around people, and yet filled with warmth in his heart. He is building his very own personality as he grows, and i'm just so proud of him, and so thankful for being given him.
Happy Birthday Sweetie!!! Wishing you the time of your life...I love you.

Friday, May 22
He says...
Now he says:
- dadd e - used to be used dad dad, and know he calls out dad e.(*no sign of mummy yet, just ma ma)
- ah ma, gong, gu, zou, nie nie (in hokkien for some of our family members)
- where is it? - by far the longest statement
- walk walk
- dark dark
- it's stuck
- car
- cake
- duck
- see
- fly
- ball
- socks
- shoo (for shoe)
- wet
- cold
- blue / red
- draw
- park
- hide
- bubbles (we have a pet maltese whom kaylen loves to follow around)
We're taking this talking development as he grows cause it's no point worrying that why he's not saying much now, and why others are faster. It's just like this in each lil one's growing years. Be it fast or slow at learning, as parents, i believe we don't want to push them too much at such a young age, but yet allow their lil minds to develop through social interaction with people around us (old or young), their contact with the environment, and i'm always for the fact that i teach kaylen through having daily conversations about everything under the sun, or through songs that we sing with him. To have a childhood in our todays time seems difficult cause the world we live in seems to be pulling us towards the thinking that we should be putting our lil ones to make use of their stong learning power now from the age of 3 to learn everything from music, to languages, to dance etc.
Both me & jayce had talked about Kay's development and having many experienced working mothers giving us advise in our workplace, we sort of starting to shut out what we have to hear cause after all Kay's ours to decide, and we've long decided when Kay was still in my tummy that no, we're not the ones who would push Kay to do things he is not interested in, and he is only going to go through just regular nursery, and then to Kindergarten, that's about it. We want him to enjoy play now, he learns when he plays, he learns when he has conversations (even with baby language) with everyone in our family. When he is ready, he would be cause when he was at playgroup, teachers there were asking if i wanted for him to be upgraded to the 2 year old group where they will sit and learn ABC's etc, and i figured out that Kaylen's not ready to be sitting down yet to co-operate, and i'm not willing to put him through without him understanding why he has to be sitting down for a certain amount of time.
He grows, and compared to when i was dealing with him when he was at 21 months, he is totally much more easy to handle now, he stops and listens when i tell him that he is not behaving, he whines lesser (he whines each time i walk away from him, to go pack my scrap stuff , which was only a very short distance away), and we believe he is slowly understanding things, and why at times it has to be the way it is. Sometimes to little ones, it doesn't have to make sense you know. On my part, i'm also understanding him better, what his favourite songs are when we play the CD (cause he would whine to the song he hates to hear), even with his baby language, i would be able to guess what he is saying to me, and i find myself being more patient as a result. Jayce at times does not pick up on Kay's mood, and at time he is left thinking cluelessly as to why Kay is behaving this way. I try to keep Jayce updated so that he is not left out on his growing days, but you know jayce belongs to the group of daddy's of the play type, so it would take sometime before he would be able to figure his son out.
I'm just toying about the idea of another mini book to create for Kaylen, and being at the age of 2 has its perks & moments, and looks like this would be up in my to-do list for the remaining month of May.Would be busy for the whole weekend with preparation for Kaylen's 2nd birthday bash on Sunday, and the reveiling of our mobile car birthday gift on Sunday morning to him which we figured my entire morning till his nap time, we'll be crazily be driving around my mom's place, then off to prepare the home cooked birthday feast for the party at night. Hope to have loads of photos to show next week, and that Kaylen would have a good time. That's the most important.
Have a beautiful weekend you all, and thanks so much for your constant comments which for me means alot. It has always been such a pleasure to have the chance to make more & new friends through the world of scrapping. I can't imagine what life would be like without this hobby.
Wednesday, May 20
Just thankful...
Not just today, but everyday, i must make additional effort to appreciate the people around me (be it at work or in my life). I just get on my life everyday knowing that i have things to do at work, and at home, and just get into doing them, but neglecting that my life shouldn't just be around doing stuff. I'm definitely blessed with lots of gifts in my life, and they are only there just this once in my life time.
So it's about time if you have not thought about it, but to start appreciating and it's alright to stop just doing stuff for the sake of it, and find the meaning behind it all. Be nice cause it's definitely worth the while, and even when Kaylen was just a baby, i find myself telling him at times of being grateful for the life he has now, for the family who loves him so dearly, and even with him now playing with his friends at times, i always repeated tell him to play nice, and let others have the toys first cause they are our guest. To me, this is so important in his upbringing cause i've been truly blessed all my life, and i appreciate all that i've been given, and for Kaylen the same applies.
To my dear family, my friends, a big thank you! Hugs...
Tuesday, May 19
It puts a smile on my face
materials used:- Monday, May 18
I like this because...
- it's done especially for me by my beloved brother
- he's trying to tell me something
- it's nice, bright & cheery
- it's all made from my scraps (even for the letterings, he used from my current used supplies)
- it has Kaylen in it (he is too afraid to be using his own photo to be hinting me)
- Kay's expression in the photo is so telling me something
- he dared to be different (i gave him an earful for sticking stars on Kay's cheeks, although it makes him look magical
- he has a reason each time he scraps (& this is his 3rd layout ever since)
Have a beautiful day!
Friday, May 15
Oh bother...

to this, Little Tikes Ride & Rescue Coupe (it even comes with a remote control for 7 different siren sounds)....guess to Kaylen when he receives it next Sunday at his birthday party, he wouldn't even bother much, just as long as it is like a car he can drive in all day, he would be happy. I'm just hoping that he likes what we've gotten him for his 2nd birthday.
There you have it, i'm done with the birthday present (awaiting for my brother to get it assembled at a secret place, and away from Kay's watchful eyes), next comes ordering his Mickey Mouse birthday cake on Monday.
It's going to be a great weekend
On Sunday, it's crop session with my sis in law, and loves it when i have company over cause both she & I are nuts about scrapping, and i now have 1 person to regular talk to about this hobby of mine, someone who will know what "trendy thursday" is about, and love to see her create. We're going to be having home cooked dinner tomorrow since we're going to be scrapping & sewing (yes working together with my bro on some sewing projects since i've got myself a Singer not too long ago). What best to spent my weekend with friends & family.
Thanks for the lovely comments you have been leaving me at my blog, and i treasure this alot, and although i'm not sure when i will ever have the chance to see you in person or pump into you at our LSS, it's always a pleasure stay in contact through this virtual world. (** hey annie aka brown box, do you have a blog, let me know if you have one cause i would very much love to be your blog fan).
Have a great weekend ahead!
Wednesday, May 13
Still feeling creative??


I'm having fun with just making stuff for my pals, and i hope too that it makes their day to receive this from me.
Have a happy Wednesday!!
Monday, May 11
Scrappy Weekend...
Weekends when we have Jayce at home with us are extra fun, cause he would always be the playmaster, coming up with new games, and this time I had jayce do crayon drawings of things kaylen likes, and through this helps Kay with learning, and had these drawings pasted on the cupboards for his everyday views.
Was feeling super creative, and i completed 2 1/2 layouts which 2 are for my pal KY of her lil princess Val. It's totally different creating for lil girls cause to be honest most of my scrap supplies are girl orientated more, and this is why Kay's LO's are mostly filled with flowers & pinks. So moving away from this for awhile, i did Kay's LO in yellow, and with October Afternoon's latest series - Cherry Hill/Ducks in a row.
These are LO's for my pal...I'm just excited that very soon i will be seeing both her & her girl soon, and this means Kay would be having a playdate soon.
Friday, May 8
Would love....
And i'm thinking of having my sofa changed from a total white to one with english vintage floral designs (not your old fasion english classic designs, but those with a touch of modern to it). When i travel to Europe for my business trips, i love to hit their home decoration stores, and when we did our home, i would be buying stuff like glasses, kitchen stuff(from strainer baskets to cheese boards & butter knife, tea towels, candle stands etc), and back home here, i would also be doing the same, and now i've a huge tall sliding cupboard filled with all these wares.
I hope to have some time to actually go about decorating more in our home like putting up picture frames, and now with an addition to our family, it's about time. I'm just inspired by these lovely homes...

Just go with the flow
New series from October Afternoon just came into stocks at Made with Love, and being a big fan of OA, i guilty of hoarding some of their lovely, sweet paper, and had my hands on the packs of wild cards as well. I'm just 1 very happy gal at this moment, and looking forward to the weekend where i would live to get my hands working with these new arrivals.
Have a beautiful weekend ahead. I know i will cause it's loads of foodie in line, 1 teppanyaki dinner on sat, 1 mother's day dim sum breakfast on sunday morning, and eating again dinner at my dad's grill party. How's your weekend line up?
Wednesday, May 6
Thanks Mom & Grandma

To my grandma, this fine lady whose watched & cared for me when i was little as mom had to be working, and you took really good care of the 3 of us. Now as we all grown up, you still made sure that we have homecooked meals for dinner every night, and although as age is catching up with you, you still have the energy to be going for window shopping at times, and gardening away. At dinner every night, you would always ask if i have my cup of chinese tea, you would always give me yours without fail. Thanks grams for the love, and i know just how precious Kaylen is to you, and everytime when you see him, you would always give him loads of kisses & hugs. I'm just truly glad that you are around with me, and have this chance to see Kaylen, and i'm wishing for you this mother's day a long & healthy life ahead with all of us.
Tuesday, May 5
Is it that difficult...
I've been always creating super clean layouts, no paints or spray mist or much inks, and i always envyed fellow scrappers who ventured into other mediums when they scrap, and there i am stuck. Like how Kaylen would say it now (he is starting to have a little more words for the past 2 weeks) - "oh no, it's stuck". Got to overcome this "i like my layout clean" mentality. How do you do it?
So here you have it, over the long weekend, my 2 super clean LO's, and lately i have a thing for white cardstock...
Monday, May 4
What is it like having a boy?
Stuff like how on earth am i going to comb a boy's hairstyle?? or what sort of games do little boy's play with (definitely no teddy bear's picnic or tea parties with the dollys), no dress up, no matching bags or shoes (i realise guys don't really bother), completely lost in thoughts as to how to deal with little boys.
When Kaylen was born, my first stay overnight in the hospital i clearly remembered when i gain consciousness was already 12 midnight, and holding him for the 2nd time was just such a moment for me. So small, so quiet he was laying in my arms, and the smell and touch of his hair. I couldn't believe it that he was my very own, someone special whom i've waited for 9 months was just there in my arms. Despite the uncomfort i was in trying to nurse him for the very 1st time & the fact that the anaesthetic was wearing of, all these were secondary when i had Kaylen in my arms. All doesn't matter, it was just all him.
Now if anyone were to ask me again on what gender would i wish for No.2, my answer would be - " as long as the baby is healthy, even if it's a boy again, i'm totally alright with it". Jayce knows how much i've changed my mindset of wanting a baby girl so much before we had Kaylen, and he knows very well that i'm totally in love with our lil guy, and doing all guy stuff is fine with me.
I just cannot believe that my 1st born, my most adored lil guy will be turning 2 very soon.
this is Kaylen in May...all grown up
Like how i tell him always - i love you precious!!A naughty corner in place...
Both my & jayce proceeded onto the pretending to leave the house (with Kay still sitting on the chair), and closing the door behind us cause we told him since he is naughty, we're going to leave without him this morning. Once the door close behind us, we heard him cry and he was silent for awhile, and we thought he most likely came down from the chair. We then opened the door again to see, and there he was sitting quietly with his teary eyes still on the chair we left him on. I carried him up, and throughout he was very very silent. In the car ride, he was quiet too. There i was thinking if Kay knew that he was being punished because he isnt being good, and would he be sorry?? As it would take some time before he starts to talk, i would always be wondering what on earth he was thinking about, or how he is feeling at times such as these. Definitely not feeling too good cause he knows if he was unhappy, he would cry, and laugh when he feels happy. Simple as this cause for an almost 2 year old, it doesn't get any more complicated than that.
It's more of a mummy & daddy thingy as we were asking ourselves on whether should we start a naughty corner for Kay when he gets out of hand, and we think it's needed to have control over his bad behaviour at times although experts say that it is recommended to start when they are 3 years old cause it's where they are most likely understand. Gosh it does take all the energy out of me being angry at him, and like all mothers out there, how long can you stay angry with your lil ones. Never too long i believe.
Part & parcel of my mummyhood....totally filled with all sorts of emotions making it all the more exciting and challenging as I enter very soon in the life of a 2 year old. Goodbye to baby days....
Are you having a good Monday so far?
Saturday, May 2
This is Mummyhood
I find myself sometimes asking how i manage to survive through being a mummy. Did i do a good job at it? Only Kay would be able to tell me if i've done an okay job out of it. Wonder if i would to ask him, what would the answer be? For all i know till he starts talking to me, i'm doing my best in every way, and i believe that's what my mom did when she had us. I manage to survive the initial months of pure tiredness, nursing for ever 2 to 3 hours, changing as much diapers as it is required. All these are gone (okay i'm still tired at times but not because i don't get enough sleep) and given way to new challenges in mummyhood as i face now - an almost 2 year old. So today i've decided to just observe what Kaylen does on his own time at different times of the day & you'll know the amount of energy i need for just 1 day of looking after him.
Basket is still there, and he is still colouring & dotting away...
Tired of colouring already, and on to pouring the coloured pencils
from one container to another...
Arghhhh
Found him in his room, sitting at the tightest possible spot
Went back into his room again, and this time to lay down..
(he was shuttering between the living room
There you have it (before i was able to sit down & blog, i was picking & packing the house again before in the next 3 hours time, it might very be in the same state or worst when the lil monster awakes). This is a typical day for me & Kaylen when we're home, and it's going to be more or less the same when he wakes up from his nap time later. And when daddy gets home in the eveing, another round of games or make believe. To keep up with him, i certainly need loads of energy, and brain power to keep him entertained, or invent little games, and when i need to rest for a while, Barney CD of songs would come in handy, or when i need to keep him out of the kitchen when i prepare his meals, it would be KungFu Panda.
Sometimes at the end of the whole day, after a good long relaxing bath, i would wind down by havng a quiet time scrapping away. Scrapping has became a big part of my life now, and i truly found a hobby which i'm passionate about, and one which allows me to use my creative juices.
Since it's going to be a long weekend, i've scrapped and hopefully would have 2 layouts at least when the weekend's over, and my 1st layout sits now awaiting for me to put on its finishing touches. Here's a peek at it's title....
May's a great month. Mother's day is round the corner and as i start on scrapping a gift for my mom cause she's been a great help for the past 2 years, and doing a really good job at looking after Kaylen for me as i work everyday, and i can't ask for anything more knowing everyday Kaylen is in good hands. I'm also working on a LO on motherhood, and how it has been for the last 2 years for me. Not only this for the month of May, but also creating some layouts of Kaylen when he is much younger as to me it's been a great journey watching him grow up, watching him go through his 1st years of being a baby, stages now of him developing & changing as he grows, and to me an amazing time to be at. 2 years ago in May this time, i'm only exactly 1 month away from my due date (Kay was suppose to arrive on June 2nd), and the emotions and feelings of being so close to welcoming my lil guy was of ups & downs. Of me having to prepare myself mentally for the birth which i was afraid of how it would go, and yet anticipating his birth, wondering how Kay would look...I love thinking back, and i know each year as i go into the month of May, not only is the birth month of Kaylen, but a very special month cause i became a mom for the very 1st time, and totally blessed with a little guy whose so special in his own little way.
Have a beautiful Saturday!!!














