Wednesday, December 31

It's goodbye year 2008

In another 9 hours more, and we'll be into year 2009, and as for what's left of today, i'll just be busying finishing all my paper work (hopefully to finish all the dreadful price lists which my eyes are now becoming very oggerly), and a much cleaner work desk creating me when i return again.

To finish my layouts, decided to work on my final piece for year 2008, which sums up my little guy's journey in this great year where each month, he is just growing and growing up, and by putting together this piece, it just brings me back to each month when the photo is taken, and certainly good memories. Always thought that Kaylen's look didn't change much, but guess when i worked on this layout, our little guy certainly did look different each month. See for yourself, and i enjoyed creating this layout which i titled : "Remember 2008".

Back home tonight, we're having a New Year's Eve party, and this time Teppanyaki & Steam boat all in one. Yummy!!!! Great to have our close ones & friends with us, and for me nothing beats celebrating it with Kaylen & Jayce as our family moves into a New Year, and i'm just glad that year 2008 went well for us Lims.

We're going to be away for a very short holiday to Pulai Spring in Johor this coming weekend, and it's definitely loads of photo taking for me cause it's Kaylen's first overseas trip. So till then, to all my friends, and fellow scrappers -

Happy New Year!!

Monday, December 29

It's a good way to end the year

What I have been up to yesterday?? Having the time of my life with my family at a crop session at my place, and it started from 3pm to 10plus at Night. Longest crop ever to happen for me. I'm just glad that we had great company, and this time, i was able to work on a piece which i had been waiting to do & a MUST DO, cause it's about Kaylen's friendship with Aunt Jianxi's Gigantic Mickey Mouse. It's been on loan to him for months, and from the day Mickey became a residence at Punggol, he not only moved very little from the spot where kaylen wants him to be sitting at everyday, no one was much allowed to take him away without kaylen starting up a brawl.

When he is older, whether he still be a fan of Mickey (he loves watching Mickey Playhouse), this layout is able to tell that story. Have yet to place the journalling on it yet but will get to doing it soon), i have titled "it's an everyday thing". Just can't have it any other way to record our life's moments, and everysince i picked up scrapbooking, it has allowed me to express my thoughts about my little guy as he gradually grows up, and for me to allow an outlet for my so called "creativity". Not much of an artsy person, but i just simply adore scrapping so much. Guess as much that it's because of all the pretty papers, and what have we that this hobby of mine is hard to resist.

Title: It's an everyday thing

Materials:-

pp: American Craft, My Mind Eyes, Sassasfras Lass

Felt: Prima

Fonts:Doodle Bug, American Craft

Ribbons: American Craft

Rub ons: Hambly's

Bling: Kaiser Craft

Others: Making Memories, Jenni Bowling

Finally the scanner is working once again, and here's the layout i did couple of days back. Am loving the PP by Jenni Bowlin of the birds, and i got to find a way to use them, and here they are.

So from now till the end of the year, it's going to be more scrapping of me as i picked out this morning more photos to scrap on.

So far my year 2008 has been good in general. This is how my year 2008 went so far:-

  • many first times for Kaylen with his 1st ever Chinese New Year celebration & first official family shoot with the entire family, his 1st Birthday in May and from then on, it's his first steps in July when he was 14 months, and bestest ever of 2008 was he finally called me "mama" on Christmas Day!

  • having to travel for work again after stopping for close to 1 1/2 years

  • my little brother Yixi whom's not little anymore getting married & knowing that he will be living exactly opposite of us at Punggol!!!

  • finding my true passion in scrapping which i did more intensive of this year, and this hobby definitely took off for me, and it's my sanctuary when work stress gets to me sometimes.
  • Jayce getting his driving license after such a long time (so i'm relieved that i don't have to be driving him around that much, and that is if i stop nagging to him about road safety)

What would next year be like for me??? & what are my resolutions for year 2009?

Saturday, December 27

Create Away...

That's exactly what i have been doing for the past 2 days, and am sooo glad that my creative jucies are back again, and to stay for a little while longer this time. It's just fun to be able to work on layouts after the mini projects i did before x'mas, so till then, it's me and the layouts at work.

I'm sort of behind time in terms of the photos that i have taken of kaylen, and i seem to have stopped in October 08 where Kay is about 17 months old. Goodness grief got to buck up a little. Below photo is taken when we were for the 1st time at Bottle Tree Village, LO titled " I love holding you".

Materials:-
Kraft cardstock (i'm just crazy about this colour of cardstock)
PP :- K&CO (Amy Butler/Life's Journey)
Diecuts:- K&Co (Amy Butler)
Rub ons: My Minds Eyes
Stickers : - 7 gypsies


The scanner's down, and i can't get my 2nd layout out, so here is a glimpse of itsy bits of it at the moment. LO titles" You make my HEART flutter".

A definite crop will go on tomorrow at my place with my usual scrap gang of my brother, sis in law & Vicole (Kay's adored gal friend whose 20yrs older than he is), and did i mention, my sis-in-law is liking scrapbooking too, much to the dislike of my brother...hehe
Till then, have a happy Saturday...

Thursday, December 25

Someone called me "Ma Ma" on Christmas Day

Bestest Christmas present that Kaylen can give me, and that's to call me "Mama" , and its on Christmas Day. You can imagine how happy i am, cause he had started to call "dad dad" months ago, but never "ma ma", and it didn't matter that Kaylen called me time after time screaming out MA MA to get my attention or get me to go somewhere he wanted me to (my mom says it's very ear deafening cause couple of days ago, he started called out " Ah Ma", and ever since, he had been literally screaming from the back of the house "Ah Ma" zillions of times, till my mom found it just too much for her ears to take. Call me a zillion times, and i will only enjoy it even more. Today on Christmas, my little guy turned 19 months.

Christmas this morning was the best, due to the late night we all had (including our little guy), we slept in later than usual till 8plus (it's considered late to me ever since Kaylen was born), then it's off to opening pressies for Kaylen. He gotten:

  • 2 bags of multi coloured balls (to fill up his inflatable swimming pool) from Uncle Yixi & Aunt Jianxi
  • Noddy train set (which wobbles & makes sound w/ Tessie Bear & Big Ears) from Uncle Hengxi & Aunt Cheryl
  • Mickey Playhouse toys + Playskool clico set (from me & jayce)
  • X'mas $$$ from great grandma & Grand Aunts & Uncles
  • MotherCare pyjama set & Wall E singlet set from grandma & grandpa

Took some pics of Kay playing with his X'mas toys.



I've gotten great gifts, and nothing can beat having my guy call me "Ma Ma" + Made with Love vouchers which i can get more of my favourite things.
Didn't make it to Botanical Gardens this morning due to the cloudy weather, so it's more of us hanging out at my mom's place & at home, and dinner tonight at Bottle Tree Village for steamboat. Ideal for such cool weather.
As the year 2008 comes to an end in another 6 more days, i'm already starting to think back about how this year went for me, and what new resolutions to set for myself.
How have your Christmas been so far???

Wednesday, December 24

Tis the Season...

Christmas Eve is here...and the season i love the most. Of course i can't resist the heavy eating that i will be doing myself with the family, to me it's what Christmas means to me, and now that i have Kaylen, It's so much more of making this joyous period of giving meaningful to those around us, spending Christmas with our loved ones, and as the years go by making Kaylen understand that during this period, we do our best to give those not as fortunate as us. Christmas has so much meaning to many, and for me, besides decorating the home, putting up the tree which i love so much, i really wanted for Kaylen to understand the love people have for each other, and to share with others during this time. So we're geared to bringing him up this way, to be grateful with what we have & appreciate others. It's always not about us or me, it's more of putting others ahead of you. I do hope i would do a decent job bringing Kay up as how my dad has brought me up.

We're feasting twice today. In another 3 hours time, it's Christmas Eve lunch at the office , and then Christmas Eve dinner at my place. It's just going to be a terrific day today, Kaylen's definitely going to have a late night today (he loves it when we have guests over)!!! Thanks to my brother Yixi whose the x'mas chef this year, and you want to know what we're having for Christmas dinner tonight...

  • Roast beef
  • Roast Turkey
  • Roast Pork
  • Pumpkin soup
  • Mash potato
  • Potato Egg Salad
  • Honey wings

It so happens that today's also my other brother Hengxi's birthday...Happy 31st Birthday Dude!!!!

Alrighty, as Christmas Eve morning started out wet & dull, i'm sure with the Christmas spirit in the air, it's not going to dampen anyone's plans in welcoming Christmas. With this,

Merry Christmas Everyone!!!

Sunday, December 21

I'm waking up to this face everyday...

Who can ever resist this charmer? I know i can't and i'm just counting my blessings everday to have this angel by my side, and one i call my own to hug & kiss anytime i want. I get the feeling that as long as i don't see him, i would miss him sort of feeling, and at the end of each day, i'm having this sweet little face greet me at the door. Kay has his moods, he has days where he is just one super sweet kid, and other days where he would just whine at every little thing. He has his naughty moments where you would just get so mad, and good times where he does what he is asked to where you wished you could just hug him forever.

I'm just lucky the other day to snap this picture of him, it was like ages since i manage to even get a decent shot of him, and he corporated with a big smile for me...i still have friends telling me that kaylen looks like Jayce, some say like me, and some others saying that he looks like either one of my brothers??? it's just so hard to say who Kay looks like but for sure he has daddy's super strengh (he is lugging heavy bags of stuff all over the place, and just a couple of days ago, he literally took a bag of rubbish outside the house & carried it all the way to the rubbish chute attempting to step on the chute peddler to throw his bag of trash....). I would say that the trash bag was not exactly that light. Jayce is just glad that he has an extra helper round the house cause just this morning Kay was "sort of" mopping around the house with one of those cleaner stick stuff (what do you call those things???), and not allowing grandma or grandpa to take it away from him. He just prefers such household stuff to his toys which he seldom plays with.


Then comes Kaylen having a new friend, and his friend so happens to be purple in colour. Barney that is, which i never though Kay would like. It's not that he loves barney to death (my son is just weird, he would be at one moment wanting to hug his Barney plush, and the next moment, he throws him on the floor angrily, and then right after wanting to hug Barney again, i'm just clueless). Guess it's one of those love-hate relationship he has with this purple coloured friend of his. And being the sort of mommy who would get anything her son loves, i just got him his 1st ever barney related toy - a plush few days ago. It's first bob the builder which he has some of the toys, then followed by Mickey which i also got him a plush, and related items, and now Barney...don't think it stops here Yin Wen...I still think he loves Mickey most...just look at Kay's face as he watches to Barney show (thanks to my friend Pam who gave me this great CD of musice & sing along with he loves & is watching as i took these pictures)




Not sure if my crop session will be on today, but i certainly need to do something about the unfinished LO which is still awaiting for me (i just lost my mojo for the last few weeks, and i have been dry of creative juices & being left layoutless (don't think there is such a word though), and i have no idea how to finish this particular LO which i titles :you make my heart flutter (a photo of me & kaylen taken months ago in my mom's garden) + thinking of going through my scrap supplies to organise it again after the last few crops i have which left me quite unorganised & would most likely be having a RAK giveaway very soon.

Completed all my x'mas pressie wrapping, mom came over this morning to leave more pressies under the tree, and i think i'm pretty much geared up to the festive season. How are you guys celebrating X'mas this year???

Saturday, December 20

4 more days to Christmas

Waiting eagerly for this day to come, of course to the great feasting that I will be having for 2 times on Christmas eve, and on Christmas day, we are all heading out to the botanica garden.

From now till Christmas, I'm still only days away from completing the x'mas wrapping (got up at 6 plus this morning to start, and after only wrapping 2 pressies, Kay was up, and all over the place, but being a sweet lil one, he helped me stuff the tree with each pressie i passed him properly under the tree. Thanks sweetie...)

So it's also completing the movie - Dark Knight tonight after putting it off for so many nights already.. and have a crop session tomorrow afternoon with my sis in law & bro, so busy busy busy...

I'm swamped, but i'm happy...

Tuesday, December 16

I'm constantly amazed

Each day, my lil guy is learning new things, and growing up so quickly. On X'mas day, Kay will turn 19 months, and it will be his 2nd X'mas. Each day, i'm thankful for having him in our lives, giving me joy & laughter and someone to come home to each day. I'm just grateful. Jayce just said last evening that Kaylen is such a big boy already, and it got me thinking how on earth did i get through all the days not realising that my lil guy is just so big now. Never fails to amaze me that i'm coming home everyday to this little fellow, and i would be hearing him say new words:-

So far, we're getting these word -

  • tuck tuck (truck, when he sees it pass by)
  • bus
  • go (when i say ready, he would say GO)
  • bea (for bear)
  • esss (for yes with heading nodding actions)
  • pook (for poke, he loves bubbles coming out of his uncle's Yixi bubble making machine)
  • jace (he calls daddy by his name...which we constantly tell him no , it's dad dad which he calls very well)

with all the new words, still no calling me Mama yet...

On scrapping front, started on 1 LO, but have yet to actually have the time to work & finish it cause there are just so many things yet to be done, and with X'mas coming in 1 weeks time, here's my x'mas to do list:-

  • x'mas shopping for the family & loads of wrapping
  • x'mas shopping for the exchange gift in the office
  • x'mas eve lunch (in the office) & dinner (at my place) to prepare (shopping of all food with my bro cause this year, Yixi's preparing for the x'mas lunch & dinner)
  • one scrap gift for my friend this 18th (i have yet to start yet)
  • x'mas gifts for my colleagues
  • one happy birthday parcel to be sent out to my pal in KK
  • one possible crop session with Yixi & Jianxi (most likely happening Wednesday night after Kaylen's gone to bed)

I'm that busy at the moment, and should i be able to finish my current pending LO which is on my scrap desk, i'm just happy. X'mas season for us are just crazy as it is as work cause we work with European countries, and with them closing in a weeks time for the holidays, i'm close to being mad & overloaded (not mentioning the price list which has to be completed before the end of the year).

How have your week been so far???

Saturday, December 13

Brought home these today...


Just totally one happy gal today. Received this lovely Coach purse from my best pal wendy today for x'mas & a scrapped bookmark which she made specially for me with both our photos (will take a picture of this cute looking bookmark tomorrow in daylight), and am simply loving her gifts so very much. If you are reading this wendy, thanks a million pal for the great gift. I have been wanting for such a long time to get a matching purse for my cards & coins to go along with my Gucci bag, and she got me this today...

I ended up also buying myself a handbag from Coach as well, and Wendy has also bought this similar one weeks ago when it just released...was looking for something in the fabric design, but in a larger size, but it's not available and i love the gold colour so much that i got one for myself too.


I just told her today that we are such bad influences on each other. It was me who started & introduced her to scrapping & making her spend huge amounts, and now i'm getting myself a bag...hmmm. Ever since i had kaylen, i had actually mostly spend on scrapping stuff & on also shopping mostly for Kaylen. Before all these, i was basically a shopper for bags, clothes & shoes (to me, it's never enough to have one bag, or a shoe, it has to be many bags & many shoes), and all these had made way to other new sort of purchases now. Shoes & bags are not as important & i know not a need to have, but i thought why not reward myself for a change. Buy myself a x'mas gift. Hubby would most likely think that it's one of my many excuses to get myself a bag.

Both me & wendy practically shop our way through, starting our journey today through town not expecting to be buying this or that, and happily ended up shopping bags filled with goodies (i got myself from the Mango sale a light beige corduroy burmudas & minimal scrap stuff), and Wen got herself some good buy from the Mango sale (she bought this great looking warm jacket), some scrap supplies & 2 pairs of sandals. We just had a great time together + late steamboat lunch at Coca. We got to get together again to do this, and she suggested away from town to do damage control on our pockets. Guess next round would be having a crop at my place. Soon i hope.
Would be starting on scrapping layouts tomorrow since my brother's in-laws will be leaving tomorrow morning, and i have my cuz coming over again for a crop for 2 finishing up her x'mas pressies for her friends, so i'm so looking forward to tomorrow. Not forgetting i have Kaylen with me for the whole day..yipeee bonding time again since i was out for almost the whole of today, and i missed him whenever he's not with me.
I'm going to hit the sack now, got to get my body re-charged again for tomorrow, hope to complete at least 1 LO tomorrow. Have a great weekend ahead!!!!

Friday, December 12

Random Pictures

Photos taken at my brother's ROM & at the POST ROM bash at One Rochester....

Manage to snap this at Jianxi's workplace - Sunrice at Fort Canning where her colleagues
threw her a reception after the ROM ceremony, and here we are...


My other brother Hengxi & his girlfriend Cheryl (we are all awaiting
for their turn next)
Us siblings + Kaylen (it's been a long time since us 3 took a photo together)
Uncle Hengxi goofing around with Kaylen

Just look at the stunning couple...

Daddy & Kaylen
Us & mom

For more pics of the bride & groom taken by my brother in-law (official photographer for the event whose work are fantastic - www.windmillphotography.biz/being_together
We're off tonight for dinner at Vivocity with Jianxi's parents & ours & of course Kaylen, and a trip to Sentosa after dinner for treat to the musical fountain...

Thursday, December 11

It's official

We have an additional member to our Tan family. It's Yixi & Jianxi's ROM today, and as we speak these 2 important person in my life has found union in one, and is now officially married (CONGRATS GUYS!!!), and yes i believe so embarking their journey down this road of bliss. I'm happy that my brother has found someone whose he wants to be with for the rest of his life, and that i have myself another sister to hang out with. It's been a tiring day so far or week for me (but i know my brother is way much tired out with his in laws in town, and having to have a bad tummy upset & fever last night), so till the dinner event is over tonight (it's a ROM party bash at One Rochester), he would have some load off his mind, and getting some rest at last.

So in another 3 hours more, we're all going to be out celebrating this new couple's bond, and merry making away, hope you all had a great week so far. Not to mention that my dear hubby has gotten his driving license just yesterday!!!! Yippeee, it does mean that in the very near future, i can be in the passenger seat at last, i can be sitting next to kaylen at the back of the car. It's such a good feeling. I have driven Jayce ever since 1996, so you count the years...not that i mind driving him, but that at times when i'm feeling so tired from driving, i can have him drive for a change. For now, he will get a chance to drive (just yesterday i let him drive the car, and it ended with me having a heart attack, so next time, i better not be in the car, not that he is a dangerous driver, just that i'm a worry wart, so every small little things gets to me, so jayce is better off driving with someone else but me, we'll see what happens in his upcoming driving episodes).

Going to take a break, and hope to be back with more pics taken at the ROM today & at the dinner...

Sunday, December 7

All about moods...

Not me, but my lil guy had been in one of his many moods. With guests over at my place this weekend, he started off being such a sweetie receiving my brother's in laws with open arms, and having not met them before & total strangers, he actually let them play & carry him around. Not bad for a start we thought. He also has a new sleepy over in the form of my brother whom at all times keeps Kay on his toes & being totally proper around Yixi, so by having this big guy over as sleep over partner, he was sort of jittery on the 1st night (waking up at wee hours of the morning, having both me & Jayce running up & down his room whenever we hear a cry), but last night seems to go well.

Yesterday , i had one of my good friend KY & my cuz over for a crop, and Kay was in another mood of his, this time - grumpy, and slightly whinny....hmmmm did that fist clenching thingy again in front of my friend (he has stopped doing this for one week already ever since we stop letting him watch Monsters Inc, so i know now that he is not ready yet for such cartoons), + a terrible long crying episode in the afternoon when i drop my friend off & at bath time a 2nd such episode...so yesterday Kay was simply just irritable in the entire afternoon. I was stressed.

Sunday morning was good, it's playground time again this morning, and we had my brother's in laws & Yixi accompanying us when we brought Kaylen down to his favourite place...






Good to see that SMILE come back again, and hopefully i have a better mood guy at home this afternoon. It's going to be just the 2 of us today, and i might work on layouts this afternoon. We'll see how it goes and my creativity level (if it's still there??) Earlier i did some clear PAGEFRAME acrylic momento gift for my cuz for her friends as this is the last year of her Secondary days (she made it to Hwa Chong JC, so we're all terribly happy for her..she's in one of those school (Nanyang Girls) that she need not take O'levels, and base on her grades for the year & projects, she qualified to JC, and now she's awaiting for her holiday job which starts in a weeks time). She's just returned from a schools trip to Adelaide, and beautiful place where she took photos with her pals. Girls this age are at their best, what great memories to have spending good bonding time with her pals. We use to hang out when she's lots younger and way before i had Kaylen. Now that she's all grown up & with a week load packed with school stuff, and me having Kaylen, it's just impossible to have our own girls time out. So when she was over at my place yesterday, asked her if she wanted to just hang around in town this coming Tue, and so my tuesday's booked with just spending good old time with her. Really looking forward to this cause she's like my lil sister. She herself have 3 brothers, and myself 2 brothers, and them being our closest relatives, i know how bored it can get being just the only girl. That's why i was super happy when i offered her to come my place for a crop, and she said YES...

Here's what i done for her for her friends:-

Tomorrow will be another great day having Jayce & Kay around me. We're off to Terminal 3 tomorrow with my borther & his in laws...there's mickey & friends this year at the airport (Kay's all about Mickey Mouse at this point of time), and with all the wide space he can run free, i know he would just simply be loving tomorrow's outing. I'm just super happy that i have 3 full days spending time with my lil guy...couldn't ask for anything more, just simple time spending with Kaylen would just make my day.
Cheerios..


Friday, December 5

It's been a hectic week

Oh i'm feeling tired...the next 2 weeks for us would be busy busy...yixi is getting registered next week, his in laws flying in the wee hours of Sat morning from Szechuan, a good friend of mine coming over to my place this Sat for a crop session as it will be her 1st time scrapping, and i'm always happy when i have friends over but would be scrapping in a much orderly & neat area cause i have guests at home. Currently as i speak, my work area is in a total mess, the dining table is beyond its recognition that i can still see the table, but all my scrap supplies would have to go when i get back home this evening from work. Jayce has been great help with the everything around the house as always, very tolerant of the mess i make at the dining table. And bonus, he is helping me organise & keep my scrap supplied tonight with me. That's sweet of him.

It's been also 2 weeks since i did any layout. Had been working on mini projects of albums, and today i will complete another for a gift to my friend. Had given her a chipboard album before, and now for a fresh change, i made an accordian album which she can display on the desk top, and instead of having patterened paper covering every single page of the chipboard, i painted all the sides, used more rub ons, parts of patterened paper from October Afternoon & loads of epoxy stickers as well. Hope she would like what i made for her. So i hope in the next week, even with guests at my place, i can actually work on layouts with very organised supplies taken out (only have half the dining table to mess up) & kept back after each scrap, and that my brother whose staying over at my place to have energy after his ROM to scrap with me at night...hmmmm possible or not???

X'mas is also 3 weeks away, i've got pressies to wrap which are accumulating, prepare the x'mas eve party which we have annually, a company x'mas party to prepare my gift exchange & handmade x'mas cards to be sent out (has to go out this week), + hopefully to work on another scrap gift album for another friend. After this, i'm giving mini projects a rest , and work on my usual fave of layouts. I like scrapping at my own pace in my own space, no rush at all. Looking forward to this so much.

Hope to be able to pop back again during the weekends to post. In the meantime, thanks for coming by!

Have a great weekend ahead....+ please beautiful weather as well to enjoy the weekend.

Saturday, November 29

Kaylen & the Tree

My little guy is so curious about the X'mas tree that i'm always finding him at some moments spending his time with it. It's either that i have done a decent job at decorating it that the tree appeals to him so much to touch the little ornaments, or that he simply loves X'mas as much as i do.....i was sneaking behind him taking this great picture moment of him on his KungFu panda car that he rode all the way from his room to the back of the tree secretly where i found him...

Caught you Kay....
Trying to destroy any possible evidence....
Just look at that cute face of his....
Those little fingers...

Finished the last batch of X'mas Cards, and this time i followed basically the initial design of having kraft cardstock as the base & punching out squares (i can't leave without kraft cardstock & square punches), and my earlier batches were using patterened paper from My Mind's Eye, and the below batches were paper from October Afternoon. Rest of the diecuts cardstock of X'massy designs were from K&Co / Making Memories, and stickers from Making Memories.

Found these great clear stamps from Creative Cafe the other day of x'mas greetings, and as i don't own much of these x'mas sayings, and knowing that this would not be the only year i'm hand making my x'mas cards (it's actually my first year deciding to make my own), and with the clear stamps at such a good price, why not???


Got to scoot, kaylen's up from nap time..

Good Ol' Saturday...

It's here again, and never fails to cheer me up that i get to spend time alone with Kay today at the usual playgroup session this morning & just staying home, being just the 2 of us. Whole week has been busy at work with oversea supplier visiting, and frustrating on the other hand having to face the "tight fist clenching & squeezed up facial expression" (looking like he is angry) of Kay. It has become so regular in the past weeks that i'm concerned as to why all this particular expression, and another a month ago this action of his evolved to something which i didn't expected it to be. All was going as usual at lunch time, with Kay having his meal, and out of no where, he did all of the above, and burst into violent crying and he just couldn't stop all these. He usual would just clench his fist & squeeze till his face turns red, but this time it lasted longer than seconds, and with the loud burst in tears, both me & jayce had to calm him down. WHY???? I'm having so much questions as to why he is behaving this way????

Went on after through the last few weeks monitoring him, and caught him doing it alone when he watches TV (his fave - Monster Inc or Bob the Builder, minus any outburst of tears), and i sort of had enough of figuring it out that yesterday when i caught him at it (he would start clenching his fists first) that i shouted at him to stop. So i ended up with one very sad kid on the verge of tears brimming at his eyes (cause when he knows mummy is angry, i really meant serious business) and a almost going crazy me....I'm still asking questions and watching him cause i totally don't understand why he does it, and sometimes he does it when he sees people. I hope it's just a phase that he will get through, but it's not like i'm not doing anything about it. Everytime when such episodes comes, i would tell Kay nicely that he shouldn't do it. So i'm at this till i see improvement in his behaviour. It's only this issue that worries me cause other then this, Kay is pretty much alright to handle. He knows of stuff when it is asked of him, our "no" when it dangerous, and Kay's been doing well.

I'm off to prepare lunch...so have yourself a happy saturday...while i have figured out that the rest of this afternoon will be spent organising & packing my scrap area & stuff (bought so much lately + freshly arrived scrap kits from Label Tulip that i have yet to even taken the stuff out of their bags/boxes yet). Hope to be able to complete also my 2nd batch of X'mas cards & several other gift projects. Till next post...

Friday, November 28

Happy Birthday Dad!!!!

Happy Birthday Dad!!! To this wonderful man whose the pillar of strenght in all i do, believing in me that i can almost achieve anything i ask for, for your unconditional love & support though the times in my life, and mostly my mentor whom since young i know i want to grow up like you. You are not only my dearest dad, but also my bestest friend ever. Love you dad and on your special day today, i wish for you good health & happiness!!!

Yes indeed a very happy day for me today, but also my heart goes out to my close pal J whom had just a couple hours earlier lost her dad to a year long battle with cancer. I teared cause i know how much pain she is going through right now cause she is here in Singapore, and he is back in Medan, so no one will truly feel the pain she is having now then herself & her family. This is diffifult time for her & her family. My deepest condolenses to J & her family, and that they seek comfort that he is no longer suffering from any illness.

So basically i'm having a mixed emotional day today...

Tuesday, November 25

18 months ago this day

I became mom to an adorable boy whom i named Kaylen Lim Yu Xuan. Ever since the day he came into our life, both me & jayce didn't mind at all the sleepless nights that followed, 5 months of total breast feeding (wanted to go as long as i could, but a week of high fever on the end of 5th month & the anti biotics i was on didn't allow me to continue), totally having no life except mostly shuttering between work, my parent's place & back home again for the past 18 months & dirty diaper changes that lasted forever, and never getting to sleep past 7am every single day, i'm okay with all these. Looking back to these last 18 months of me being mummy and many more zillion years to come, i'm actually enjoying the role.

It's all his little giggles & smiles & occasional hugs & "sayangs" i get that keeps me full of energy. No doubt i'm mostly drained out by the time Kay goes to bed (cause it's only at bed time that he stops running around the house), all these are well worth it cause nothing beats seeing one happy chap having the time of his life. I go by the rule "as long as it's not dangerous, you are allowed to do it" seems to work. If we say no to him, he does not insists. If we ask for him to help out with simple things like throwing his diapers, or take his milk bottle to the kitchen, he does. At age 18 months, he is slowly understanding what we ask of him, and he does have his moods. We are also start understanding his little sounds, and gestures. He has his emotions when any of us leave him, or his happy giggly times before bed time. All these are just him. I enjoy all our play sessions at home & at playgroup, and now 1 month into his playgroup, I'm able now at home to play & sing "row row row your boat" (kay will sit down automatically when i ask if he would like to row the boat with me & stretch out his hands) or "twinkle twinkle little stars" gestures as i sing. He is able now to sit through the sing along sessions at playgroup (way much longer than his 1st 2 play sessions at Tumble Tots). I'm just proud of how much he has grown. No more baby, just a little boy now we see him.

Sometimes, i tell him "you are growing up just too fast Kay", wished he would slow down a little where i can just cherish carrying him in my arms for a little while longer. I do miss those baby days...in another 6 months time, Kay will be 2. Didn't we just celebrated his 1st birthday awhile ago...goodess gracious. Just too fast Kay.

Leaving you with a picture of Kaylen just when he is one day old....love you Kay....


Have yourself a good night...

I Heart Christmas

Our Christmas tree was finally up during the weekends (with me decorating it at 6am plus in the morning before our lil guy is up for the day), cause sweet old jayce has set up the tree & lights all the night before. Being Kaylen whom is always "helpful", we know he would really love to meddle with the X'mas decors even before hanging them up so we got to get it all done when he is asleep. So here's Kay in the wee hours of Sunday morning which Jayce caught a picture of him by himself by the x'mas tree that same morning when i have just gotten the decorations up, having his very own alone time with the tree.

good old snowman is also sitting pretty on the table
And my beautiful decors all looking clear & crystal

And my crop session went real well, not only am i pleased at having company over at my place in the afternoon, it also means that Kay has play friends too. Sort of in form of Vicole Jie Jie. He just adores her so that he hangs around wherever she was in our home. Kay would just be standing by her side, and he giggles...how cute is that. He just loves having her around. Pictures from our crop session...
there you have it - my little brother Yixi at work...

there you have it - Jianxi concentrating on creating her X'mas LO for her best friend
Vicole in pink cutting away....
Yixi showing off his hands at work...

Yixi's creativity flows....

Jianxi's sweet layout...
I enjoyed myself very much with the company i have over the weekend, i wish for more of such sessions....soon in Dec, i'm having Wendy & her friend come over at my place for another crop session.

Monday, November 24

Acrylic Album Put Together

In on of my earlier posts, someone asked me how to put together my acrylic album which i completed sometime back for my brother's ROM. So here are basically the materials which i used to create this album. I happen to attend sometime back a workshop at MWL on clear acrylic albums, and i found such albums to be such lovely gifts to make. Thanks Kelly from MWL for some of the tips which i used on my very own made version.

Materials:-
Pageframe Design Clear 6"Acrylic Album (cover dimension 7 1/2" x 6 1/2", with 9 page & 3 rings)

It being a clear album, i chose to work with mostly overlays & lace cardstocks as it allows for the album to have a more dept through the visual of such materials used. For both the cover & back of the album, i used the technique taught in the workshop of having to stamp with Stazon (butter creme) of word phases all over one side of the album, thus creating translucent effect through the rest of the pages of the album. Stazon ink would be appropriate for use on stamping on material such as acrylics.

Overlays such as Hambly's are my favourite, and in this album i used the latest birdcage series of overlays in white and chocolate colours + their clear overlay of journaling spots. I chosed an overall colour scheme of no more than 3 colours as i work through the patterened paper & matching embellishments (mostly greens, pinks & browns). And given that this is a wedding album of a sort, i used Blings & sticklers on certain pages to create a more classy look. For this album, i played with my square punch on each different page, and along side that every page created is of the same style, but changing only the playment of the photos, and how the patterened paper is being co-ordinated in position to the photos. I also used the corner punch for most of my photos & paper. Rub ons are also great for such albums.

As for the type of glue used for adhering the paper or overlays, i used glue tap for the paper, glossy accents for the overlays & glue dots for the ribbons. As this album will be on display for many to flip during the event, i had to ensure that the embellishments like chipboards, ribbons are glued down with stronger version of glue dots by Zots.

Lastly, as i finish creating each page, i would tend to stack each page above one another to ensure that the complete effect of having to see bits of the photos or embellishments are still visible, and parts of whether be it the overlay or lettering are seen through the layers of the clear album. I finished it all off with assortment of ribbons of different textures & adding some strings of pearls too (you can get the strings of pearls from Spotlight in whatever lengths you like)

So there you have it, one clear album created with loads of love..hope the pointers i gave are helpful in creating your very own for your loved ones.